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Parents exacerbate this problem further when they exhibit favoritism, which they do overwhelmingly, no matter how much they admit it.
وادین این مشکل را وخیم‌تر می‌کنند وقتی بین بچه‌ها فرق می‌گذارند، کاری که زیاد انجامش می‌دهند، هرچند زیاد به آن اعتراف نمی‌کنند.
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A study I cite in this TIME magazine covering in the book "The Sibling Effect," found 70 percent of fathers and 65 percent of mothers exhibit a preference for at least one child.
<i>A testvéri kötelék</i>-ben leírt tanulmány, amit a TIME magazinban idézek, rámutatott, hogy az apák 70%-a, az anyák 65%-a előnyben részesíti legalább egyik gyermekét.
en-hu
And keep in mind here -- the keyword is "exhibit."
Обратите внимание на слово «показывали».
en-ru
The remaining parents may simply be doing a better job of concealing things.
Preostali roditelji možda samo rade bolji posao skrivanja stvari.
en-hr
(Laughter) I like to say that 95 percent of all parents have a favorite, five percent are lying about it.
(Risas) Me gusta decir que el 95 % de los padres tienen un hijo favorito, el 5 % miente al respecto.
en-es
The exception is my wife and me.
חוץ מאשתי וממני.
en-he
Honestly, we do not have a favorite.
De verdad, no tenemos un favorito.
en-es
(Laughter) It's not parents' fault that they harbor feelings of favoritism.
(Risos) Não é culpa dos pais que eles nutram sentimentos de favoritismo.
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And here, too, our natural wiring is at work.
Это тоже естественно.
en-ru
Firstborns are the first products on the familial assembly line.
第一胎是家庭裝配線的第一個產品。
en-zh-tw
Parents typically get two years of investing dollars, calories and so many other resources in them, so that by the time the second born comes along, the firstborn is already ... it's what corporations call "sunk costs," you don't want to disinvest in this one and launch the R&amp;D on the new product.
Durante dos años los padres, como norma, invierten dinero, calorías y muchos otros recursos en ellos, que para cuando llegan los segundos el primero ya está... lo que las empresas llaman "fondo perdido", uno no quiere desinvertir en este y lanzarse a la investigación y desarrollo del nuevo producto.
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(Laughter) So what we begin to do is say, "I'm going to lean to the Mac OS X and let the Mac OS XI come out in a couple of years."
(Kahkahalar) Yani yaptığımız şey şunun gibi, "Bir süre Mac OS X kullanacağım ve birkaç yıl Mac OS XI'in çıkmasını bekleyeceğim."
en-tr
So we tend to lean in that direction.
Vamos en esa dirección.
en-es
(Laughter) But there are other forces at work, too.
(Смех) Но задействованы и другие силы.
en-ru
One of the same studies I looked at both here and in the book found that, improbably, the most common favorite for a father is the last-born daughter.
Eine sowohl hier als auch in meinem Buch vorgestellte Studie belegt: Auch wenn es unwahrscheinlich scheint, lieben Väter die letztgeborene Tochter,
en-de
The most common favorite for a mother is the firstborn son.
母亲普遍喜欢第一个出生的儿子。
en-zh-cn
Now, this isn't Oedipal; never mind what the Freudians would have told us a hundred years ago.
这不是恋母情结,别管弗洛伊德学派 在一百年前告诉我们的那些。
en-zh-cn
And it's not just that fathers are habitually wrapped around the fingers of their little girls, though I can tell you that, as the father of two girls, that part definitely plays a role.
並不只是爸爸會習慣去 纏著他們小女兒的手指, 不過,我自己有兩個女孩, 我可以告訴你們, 那部份絕對有扮演一個角色。
en-zh-tw
Rather, there is a certain reproductive narcissism at work.
ولكن ناك جانب أناني يعاد انتاجه.
en-ar
Your opposite-gender kids can never resemble you exactly.
Vaša djeca suprotnog spola nikada vam ne mogu sličiti.
en-hr
But if somehow they can resemble you temperamentally, you'll love them all the more.
Но если они походят на вас характером, вы любите их ещё больше.
en-ru
As the result, the father who is a businessman will just melt at the idea of his MBA daughter with a tough-as-nails worldview.
در نتیجه، پدری که تاجر است، قند توی دلش آب می‌شود، از فکر این که دخترش با مدرک ام.بی.ای دیدگاهی تیزبینانه به جهان دارد.
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The mother who is a sensitive type will go gooey over her son the poet.
Majka koja je osetljivija će se raspekmeziti zbog svog sina pesnika.
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(Laughter) Birth order, another topic I covered for TIME, and another topic I cover in the book, plays out in other ways as well.
(Γέλια) Η σειρά γεννήσεως, άλλο ένα θέμα που κάλυψα για το περιοδικό TIME, και ένα θέμα που καλύπτω στο βιβλίο, λειτουργεί και με άλλους τρόπους.
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Long before scientists began looking at this, parents noticed that there are certain temperamental templates associated with all birth rankings: the serious, striving firstborn; the caught-in-a-thicket's middle born; the wild child of a last born.
Jóval mielőtt a tudósok elkezdték volna ezt vizsgálni, a szülők észrevették, hogy bizonyos személyiségjegyek a születési sorrenddel összefüggésben vannak. A komoly, törekvő első; a közre fogott középső; és a vad kicsi.
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And once again, when science did crack this field, they found out mom and dad are right.
同樣的,當科學進入了這個領城, 他們發現爸媽是對的。
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Firstborns across history have tended to be bigger and healthier than later borns, in part, because of the head start they got on food in an area in which it could be scarce.
역사적으로 첫째 아이들은 뒤에 태어난 동생들보다 더 크고 건강했습니다 그 이유 중 하나는 음식이 부족할 수 있는 곳에서 첫째들이 음식에 대해 우선권을 갖는다는 것입니다.
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Firstborns are also vaccinated more reliably and tend to have more follow-up visits to doctors when they get sick.
第一个出生的孩子 接种的疫苗更加有保障, 生病时及时就医和随访的 可能性也更大。
en-zh-cn
And this pattern continues today.
והדפוס הזה ממשיך היום.
en-he
This IQ question is, sadly -- I can say this as a second-born -- a very real thing.
Момент с IQ — будучи вторым по старшинству, признаю это с горечью — действительно существует.
en-ru
Firstborns have a three-point IQ advantage over second borns and second borns have a 1.5 IQ advantage over later borns, partly because of the exclusive attention firstborns get from mom and dad, and partly because they get a chance to mentor the younger kids.
بچه‌های اول نسبت به دوم سه امتیاز آی‌کیوی بالاتر دارند و آی‌کیوی دومی‌ها نسبت به بچه‌های بعدی یک‌ونیم امتیاز بالاتر است، بخشی به دلیل توجه بالای والدین به بچه‌های اول، و بخشی به این دلیل که بچه‌های اول این شانس را دارند که برای بعدی‌ها نقش معلمی داشته باشند.
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All of this explains why firstborns are likelier to be CEOs, they are likelier to be senators, they are likelier to be astronauts, and they are likelier to earn more than other kids are.
Mindez magyarázza, hogy az elsőszülöttek miért lesznek inkább CEO-k, vagy miniszterek. Nagyobb eséllyel válnak asztronautává, és valószínűleg többet is fognak keresni, mint testvéreik.
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Last borns come into the world with a whole different set of challenges.
يأتي الابناء الأصغر وأمامهم تحديات مختلفة تماما.
en-ar
The smallest and weakest cubs in the den, they're at the greatest risk of getting eaten alive, so they have to develop what are called "low-power skills" -- the ability to charm and disarm, to intuit what's going on in someone else's head, the better to duck the punch before it lands.
Najmanja i najslabija mladunčad u jazbini imaju najveću šansu da budu živi pojedeni, stoga moraju da razviju ono što zovemo „veštine slabijih” - sposobnost da očaraju i razoružaju, da predosete šta se odvija u nečijoj glavi, da je bolje da spreče nego da leče.
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(Laughter) They're also flat-out funnier, which is another thing that comes in handy, because a person who's making you laugh is a very hard person to slug.
(Γέλια) Είναι, επίσης, απολύτως πιο αστείοι, που είναι κι αυτό κάτι χρήσιμο, επειδή είναι δύσκολο να ρίξεις μπουνιά σ' ένα άτομο που σε κάνει να γελάς.
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(Laughter) It's perhaps no coincidence that over the course of history, some of our greatest satirists -- Swift, Twain, Voltaire, Colbert -- (Laughter) are either the last borns or among the last in very large families.
(Nevetés) Talán nem is véletlen, hogy a történelem során néhány nagy szatíraíró, mint Swift, Twain, Voltaire, Colbert, (Nevetés) utolsónak született gyermekek, vagy az utolsók között voltak egy nagy számosságú családban.
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Most middle borns don't get quite as sweet a deal.
Većina srednje dece ne dobije ni blizu tako dobre ponude.
en-sr
I think of us as the flyover states.
أفكر بنا كما لو أننا ولايات منخفضة الأهمية.
en-ar
We are -- (Laughter) we're the ones who fight harder for recognition in the home.
Mi smo - (Smeh) mi smo oni koji se u kući najviše bore za priznanja.
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We're the ones who are always raising our hands while someone else at the table is getting called on.
نحن من يرفع أيدينا دوما بينما ينادون شخصا آخر غيره.
en-ar
We're the ones who tend to take a little longer to find their direction in life.
Mi smo oni kojima treba malo više vremena da pronađu svoj put u životu.
en-sr
And there can be self-esteem issues associated with that, notwithstanding the fact that I've been asked to do TED, so I feel much better about these things right now.
和這相關的還有自尊議題, 儘管我被邀請來 TED 演講, 所以我現在對這些事感覺好很多。
en-zh-tw
(Laughter) But the upside for middle borns is that they also tend to develop denser and richer relationships outside the home.
(خنده حضار)‌ اما لایه بیرونی بچه‌های میانی این است که آنها روابط محکم‌تر و غنی‌تری را در بیرون از خانه ایجاد می‌کنند.
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But that advantage comes also from something of a disadvantage, simply because their needs weren't met as well in the home.
Fakat bu avantaj bir dezavantajdan doğar çünkü evde ihtiyaçları olan ilgiyi alamamışlardır.
en-tr
The feuds in the playroom that play out over favoritism, birth order and so many other issues are as unrelenting as they seem.
دشمنی‌های اتاق بازی که از تبعیض‌گذاری‌ها، ترتیب تولد و خیلی مسائل دیگر ناشی می‌شود، همانقدر که به نظر می‌رسد، پیگیر و بی‌امان است.
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In one study I cite in the book, children in the two-to-four age group engage in one fight every 6.3 minutes, or 9.5 fights an hour.
En el libro hago referencia a un estudio donde niños entre dos y cuatro años se pelean una vez cada 6,3 minutos, o 9,5 veces por hora.
en-es
That's not fighting -- that's performance art.
이 정도면 싸우는 게 아니죠. 바로 행위 예술입니다.
en-ko
(Laughter) That's extraordinary.
(Kahkahalar) Bu olağan dışı.
en-tr
One reason for this is that there are a lot more people in your home than you think there are, or at least a lot more relationships.
其中一个原因是你的家庭人口 比你想象的要多, 或至少有很多的人际关系存在。
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Every person in your house has a discrete one-on-one relationship with every other person, and those pairings or dyads add up fast.
你家中的每一個人都和任何一個人 有一個分離的一對一關係, 而那些兩兩配對的數目 隨人數會增加很快。
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In a family with two parents and two kids, there are six dyads: Mom has a relationship with child A and B, Dad has a relationship with child A and B.
في عائلة تتكون من زوجين وطفلين، هناك ست أزواج: الأم لها علاقة مع الطفل أ و ب، الأب له علاقة مع الطفل أ و ب.
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There's the marital relationship, and there is the relationship between the kids themselves.
Tu je i bračni odnos, kao i odnos između same dece.
en-sr
The formula for this looks very chilly but it's real.
Формула кажется сухой, но так и есть.
en-ru
K equals the number of people in your household, and X equals the number of dyads.
K evdeki kişi sayısı olsun ve X ilişki sayısı.
en-tr
In a five-person family, there are ten discrete dyads.
在五個人的家庭中, 就有十種分離的兩兩配對關係。
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The eight-person Brady Bunch -- never mind the sweetness here -- there were 28 dyads in that family.
在 Brady Bunch 的八口之家中 ——先不考虑剧情—— 有 28 对配对关系。
en-zh-cn
The original Kennedy family with nine kids had 55 different relationships.
La familia original Kennedy con 9 hijos tiene 55 relaciones distintas.
en-es
And Bobby Kennedy, who grew up to have 11 children of his own, had a household with a whopping 91 dyads.
Bobby Kennedy 在他自己组成的 有 11 个孩子的家庭中, 有 91 对这种关系。
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This overpopulation of relationships makes fights unavoidable.
אוכלוסיית יתר כזו של מערכות יחסים הופכת ריבים לבלתי נמנעים.
en-he
And far and away the biggest trigger for all sibling fights is property.
Y con mucha ventaja, el principal detonante de las peleas entre hermanos es la propiedad.
en-es
Studies have found that over 95 percent of the fights among small children concern somebody touching, playing with, looking at the other person's stuff.
Des études ont montré que plus de 95% des querelles des enfants en bas âge concernent la possession : toucher, regarder, ou jouer avec le jouet d'un autre.
en-fr
(Laughter) This in its own way is healthy if it's very noisy, and the reason is that small children come into the world with absolutely no control.
(笑声) 如果他们为这吵闹, 这本身是很正常的, 因为小孩子来到这个世界上时 是完全没有控制权的。
en-zh-cn
They are utterly helpless.
他们极度的无助。
en-zh-cn
The only way they have of projecting their very limited power is through the objects they can call their own.
הדרך היחידה שיש להם לחוות את כוחם, המאוד מוגבל, היא דרך החפצים שלהם.
en-he
When somebody crosses that very erasable line, they're going to go nuts, and that's what happens.
Kad netko prijeđe tu izbrisivu crtu, poludjet će, i to se događa.
en-hr
Another very common casus belli among children is the idea of fairness, as any parent who hears 14 times a day, "But that's unfair!"
Bir başka kavga sebebi ise adalet düşüncesidir, bunu günde 14 defa "Ama bu adil değil!"
en-tr
can tell you.
", tanúsíthatja ezt.
en-hu
In a way this is good, too, though.
Mas isso é bom de certa maneira.
en-pt-br
Kids are born with a very innate sense of right and wrong, of a fair deal versus an unfair one, and this teaches them powerful lessons.
Les enfants naissent avec un sens très inné de ce qui est bien ou mal, de ce qui est juste ou non, et cela leur enseigne des leçons utiles.
en-fr
Do you want to know how powerfully encoded fairness is in the human genome?
¿Quieren saber cuán profundamente arraigada está la noción
en-es
We process that phenomenon through the same lobe in our brain that processes disgust, meaning we react to the idea of somebody being cheated the same way we react to putrefied meat.
نحن نطور الظاهرة بنفس الطريقة التي يعالج فيها الدماغ عملية الهضم، بمعنى أننا نتعامل مع خيانة أحدهم مثلما نتعامل مع تناول قطعة من اللحم.
en-ar
(Laughter) Any wonder that this fellow, Bernie Madoff, is unpopular?
(Kahkahalar) Bernie Madoff neden popüler değil fikriniz var mı?
en-tr
All of these dramas played out day to day, moment to moment, serve as a real-time, total-immersion exercise for life.
همه این دراماهایی که روز به روز و لحظه به لحظه پخش می‌شود، تمرین تمام عیار در زمان واقعی برای زندگی است.
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Siblings teach each other conflict avoidance and conflict resolution, when to stand up for themselves, when to stand down; they learn love, loyalty, honesty, sharing, caring, compromise, the disclosure of secrets and much more important, the keeping of confidences.
يعلم الأخوة بعضهم تجنب النزاعات والقرارات المترتبة على النزاعات، متى يدافعون عن نفسهم، متى لا يدافعون عن نفسهم، يتعلمون الحب، الاخلاص والصدق والمشاركة، والاهتمام والتسوية الإباحة بالأسرار والأكثر أهمية كتم الأسرار.
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I listen to my young daughters -- aren’t they adorable? -- I listen to my young daughters talking late into the night, the same way my parents, no doubt, listened to my brothers and me talking, and sometimes I intervene, but usually I don't.
Escucho a mis hijas pequeñas — ¿no son lindísimas? — Escucho a mis hijas pequeñas hablando hasta altas horas de la noche, de igual manera que mis padres, sin duda, escuchaban a mis hermanos y a mí hablando, y a veces intervengo, pero por lo general, no.
en-es
They're part of a conversation I am not part of, nobody else in the world is part of, and it's a conversation that can and should go on for the rest of their lives.
她們是對話的一部份,我則不是, 世界其他任何人都不是, 那對話能夠且應該會持續下去, 跟著她們的一生。
en-zh-tw
From this will come a sense of constancy, a sense of having a permanent traveling companion, somebody with whom they road-tested life before they ever had to get out and travel it on their own.
Bundan bağlılık hissi doğar. Kalıcı bir dostun olması hissi, daha dışarıdaki yolları görmeden yolculuğa hazırlandıkları bir kişiye sahip olma hissi.
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Brothers and sisters aren't the sine qua non of a happy life; plenty of adult sibling relationships are fatally broken and need to be abandoned for the sanity of everybody involved.
兄弟姐妹不是生活幸福的必要条件; 很多成年人与他们手足的关系 已经破裂到无法挽回的程度, 所以这些人都理智的 抛弃了这种关系。
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And only-children, throughout history, have shown themselves to be creatively, brilliantly capable of getting their socialization and comradeship skills through friends, through cousins, through classmates.
Az egykék is számtalanszor bizonyították kreativitásukat, zsenialitásukat, kapcsolatteremtési és bajtársiassági képességek kialakítására barátok, unokatestvérek és osztálytársak segítségével.
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But having siblings and not making the most of those bonds is, I believe, folly of the first order.
Međutim, imati srodnike i ne izvući najviše iz tih veza je, bar ja smatram, na prvom mestu glupost.
en-sr
If relationships are broken and are fixable, fix them.
Eğer ilişkiler bozulduysa ve düzeltilebilirse, düzeltin.
en-tr
If they work, make them even better.
kitten Sie sie. Wenn sie funktionieren, machen Sie sie noch besser.
en-de
Failing to do so is a little like having a thousand acres of fertile farmland and never planting it.
לא לעשות זאת זה כאילו יש לכם אלפי דונמים של אדמה פוריה ואתם לא שותלים בה כלום.
en-he
Yes, you can always get your food at the supermarket, but think what you're allowing to lie fallow.
Igen, bármikor vehetünk kaját a boltban, de gondoljunk bele, hogy mit is hagyunk parlagon.
en-hu
Life is short, it's finite, and it plays for keeps.
Az élet rövid, véges és nem babra megy.
en-hu
Siblings may be among the richest harvests of the time we have here.
Los hermanos pueden estar entre las cosechas más ricas del tiempo que tenemos aquí.
en-es
I'm a computer science professor, and my area of expertise is computer and information security.
我是一个计算机科学教授 我的专业领域是 计算机与信息安全
en-zh-cn
When I was in graduate school, I had the opportunity to overhear my grandmother describing to one of her fellow senior citizens what I did for a living.
Όταν ήμουν φοιτητής, είχα την ευκαιρία να ακούσω τυχαία τη γιαγιά μου να περιγράφει σε έναν ηλικιωμένο φίλο της τι δουλειά έκανα.
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Apparently, I was in charge of making sure that no one stole the computers from the university. (Laughter) And, you know, that's a perfectly reasonable thing for her to think, because I told her I was working in computer security, and it was interesting to get her perspective.
Szerinte én felelek azért, hogy senki ne lopja el a számítógépeket az egyetemről. (Nevetés) Valahol logikus volt az elképzelése, mert azt mondtam neki, hogy én ügyelek a számítógépek biztonságára. Érdekes volt megtudni, hogy ő ezt hogyan látja.
en-hu
But that's not the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard anyone say about my work.
Но это не самое смешное из того, что я слышал о своей работе.
en-ru
The most ridiculous thing I ever heard is, I was at a dinner party, and a woman heard that I work in computer security, and she asked me if -- she said her computer had been infected by a virus, and she was very concerned that she might get sick from it, that she could get this virus. (Laughter) And I'm not a doctor, b...
ที่ตลกที่สุดคือ ผมไปงานเลี้ยง แล้วมีผู้หญิงคนนึง ได้ยินว่าผมทำงานด้านความปลอดภัยคอมพิวเตอร์ ก็เลยถามผมว่า คอมของเธอติดไวรัส และเธอก็เครียด เพราะกังวลว่า เธอจะติดหวัดจากคอมได้ไหม (เสียงหัวเราะ) ถึงผมจะไม่ใช่หมอนะครับ ผมบอกเธอไปว่า แทบจะเป็นไปไม่ได้เลยนะครับ แต่ถ้าอยากให้สบายใจนะครับ ลองใส่ถุงมือเวลาเล่นคอมก็ได้ จริงๆ ทำ...
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I'm going to get back to this notion of being able to get a virus from your computer, in a serious way.
Revin la ideea de a contracta un virus din computerul personal, la modul serios.
en-ro
What I'm going to talk to you about today are some hacks, some real world cyberattacks that people in my community, the academic research community, have performed, which I don't think most people know about, and I think they're very interesting and scary, and this talk is kind of a greatest hits of the academic securi...
Những gì tôi sẽ nói với các bạn ngày hôm nay là có một số người hack (bí mật xâm nhập vào máy tính của bạn), một số cuộc tấn công mạng toàn cầu mà mọi người trong cộng đồng của tôi, cộng đồng nghiên cứu học thuật, đã thực hiện, mà tôi nghĩ rằng hầu hết mọi người không biết về điều này, và tôi nghĩ rằn...
en-vi
None of the work is my work. It's all work that my colleagues have done, and I actually asked them for their slides and incorporated them into this talk.
Niciunul nu e făcut de mine. Colegii mei le-au făcut, le-am cerut diapozitivele și le-am inclus în prezentare.
en-ro
So the first one I'm going to talk about are implanted medical devices.
Najskôr vám poviem niečo o implantovaných medicínskych zariadeniach.
en-sk
Now medical devices have come a long way technologically.
Urządzenia medyczne bardzo się rozwinęły.
en-pl
You can see in 1926 the first pacemaker was invented.
Az első pacemakert [szívritmus-szabályzót] 1926-ban fejlesztették ki.
en-hu
1960, the first internal pacemaker was implanted, hopefully a little smaller than that one that you see there, and the technology has continued to move forward.
وفي عام 1960، تم زرع أول جهاز تنظيم ضربات قلب داخلي. آمل أن يكون أصغر من ذاك الذي تشاهدونه في الصورة، واستمرت التكنولوجيا في التقدم.
en-ar
In 2006, we hit an important milestone from the perspective of computer security.
في 2006، حققنا إنجازا مهماً من منظور مجال أمن الكومبيوتر.
en-ar
And why do I say that?
為什麼為這麼說?
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