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but then, and i will also say that some shuru, a minority- | N | 4.4 | 4.2 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
opinion, but some do say, in islam- | X | 4.6 | 3.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
and he, i can't say went into- | N | 5 | 4.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
seclusion, but he didn't visit them for some period of time. i think it was- | H | 4.6 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
close to a month, something like that. so... | N | 5 | 4.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
there was one sister, i guess, like an islamic researcher or something. and she said- | N | 3.2 | 3.6 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
material wealth and the prophets, [foreign language 00:05:29], to put it colloquially- | H | 5 | 4.2 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
not going to buy a big house and live a lavish life. that is not what he was put on earth- | X | 4.2 | 4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
for, and his wives were- | N | 4.4 | 3.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
so what did he do? he didn't- | X | 4.8 | 3.4 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
hit anyone, he left. and so that was the sort of, what can- | N | 4.3 | 4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
they say? that seemed to be last straw for him. and there was no hitting involved that, at that point of separation, was- | X | 4.4 | 2.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
when he acts them and went along, reveal that person [inaudible 00:06:10] will have all the notes in the- | N | 4.2 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
in the description, not- | S | 4.2 | 3.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
i think that is- | F | 3.6 | 4.6 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
good evidence for the possibility of- | S | 4.6 | 3.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
let me get back to the example about one of my [foreign language 00:06:30], when physical- | N | 4.6 | 4.2 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
he said, it's not about disobedience simply against the husband, or upsetting the husband. | N | 3.4 | 3.6 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
so it's not as if, oh, you always make the coffee to- | X | 4.6 | 4.4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
black. something like that. no, it's about disobeying. | D | 5 | 4.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
jess is inappropriately and she's always- | X | 4.4 | 4.2 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
well, i don't know if that's what he said- | H | 5.454545 | 5.545455 | 5.272727 | 1080 | Female |
but something like dressing inappropriately, i remember that- | U | 4.6 | 2.8 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
that part, and that she's continuously doing that, and they've gone to other people to seek advice, to get help for their marriages. | N | 4.8 | 4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
that was the example my shuru gave. so- | X | 4 | 4 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
when we talk about using physical harm, because even whenever that verse is translated in english, it never- | N | 5 | 3.272727 | 5.090909 | 1080 | Female |
quite makes sense in terms of our own- | C | 4.4 | 3 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
you don't beat someone lightly, when you talk about beating, it's always- | D | 5 | 2.8 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
it's harsh. hitting could possibly be- | N | 5 | 3.2 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
lightly, but then you'd also- | X | 3.6 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
have to ask, well, why would that be the limit? how could hitting someone lightly, or even someone would say hitting someone with a [inaudible 00:07:44], like how could that- | X | 5.4 | 4 | 5.6 | 1080 | Female |
be worse than separating from the bed? so, you know, [foreign language 00:07:49]- | U | 4.2 | 4.2 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
i'm not a scholar on these issues, i'm just sharing- | U | 4.3 | 3.5 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
that's the example he gave about physical harm. | N | 4.8 | 3.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
i absolutely, i shouldn't say absolutely, but i hate- | A | 4.6 | 3 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
just does not understand and nuance of any relationship as- | H | 4.8 | 4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
even those with domestic violence. so women stay for many reasons- | N | 4.2 | 4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
some may stay and probably most of them stay for more than one reason, right? so one or a combination of these reasons- | X | 4.8 | 3.6 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
most stay for the sake of their children. and some people may say, well, it's better to be a single mom- | N | 5.4 | 4 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
i would say yes, of course, in terms of finding a better relationship- | C | 4.8 | 4 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
or taking some space, or do i want to say, taking some space to be alone... | S | 4.6 | 3.2 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
it would be better to me to be alone than to be in an abusive relationship. | N | 5 | 4.2 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
at the same time, she's also going to lose financial support. even if he- | F | 4.4 | 3.6 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
child support will almost always be less than what you would have. | N | 4.8 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
kids, or when he's working, you're with the kids, whatever it is, having that emotional support, even can- | N | 4.6 | 4.8 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
another reason women, they could be because of their relationship, with or without kids. so i just said- | X | 4.4 | 3.4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
but i was very careful to say almost, because- | D | 3.6 | 2.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
at the time the relationship is good, but when we get into these heated arguments, then he may- | X | 3.8 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
hate me, for some women- | U | 4.6 | 2.8 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
physical intimacy. they may feel that all of that- | X | 3.6 | 4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
unfortunate that people diminish that because the more you diminish that | S | 3.8 | 2.6 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
the less you'll be able to understand why some women stay in those kinds | C | 4 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
that either, i think men- | D | 4.6 | 2.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
just the way that, this is what they were taught was a part of love through what they were shown through their parents. they love them, but- | S | 4 | 3.6 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
...the other person triggers them. you can love someone and treat them badly... | C | 4.8 | 3.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
...or because of you, because something is wrong with you, and your anger issues. so you should to tell... | N | 4.8 | 2.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
...that her husband doesn't really love her because he hits her, i also don't ... | S | 4.2 | 2.8 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
... feel is useful. | N | 4 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
i do not believe you can help anyone if you're not willing to understand them, and understand why they're doing what they're doing to some degree, have some kind of... | X | 6.2 | 3.4 | 5.6 | 1080 | Female |
...thing that could happen to any woman, but the women who stay are... | N | 4.2 | 4.4 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
...probably, again, a lot of them are alone, but are probably woman who don't... | H | 4.2 | 3.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
...have familial or communal support. | N | 3.4 | 4.2 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
like the lowest of men, and sadly, it's not even funny, but sadly get with almost the lowest of men that no one wanted in our community. | C | 4.2 | 3.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
again, not just get involved but stay in domestic violence, | N | 4.8 | 4.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
but they were telling me that their mother had told their daughter... | H | 4.6 | 4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
...basically if your husband hits you or something like that, don't come crying back to me, because essentially she would always try and teach the daughter... | H | 4.4 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
...different feminine household skills while the daughter was focused on education and her... | X | 4.6 | 5 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
...husband, the girl's father also supported her in her educational pursuits. | H | 5.2 | 4.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
...so her mother said something like that, like... | N | 5 | 4.2 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
...don't ever come crying back to this house if you get hit. | H | 5.4 | 4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
...coming from a more traditional culture... | H | 4.4 | 5 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
the essence of that can still happen to, or it's possible... | O | 4.6 | 4.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
...anywhere, which is that if you don't have a home to go back to, it's going to be a lot harder to leave an abusive marriage. if your parents... | N | 3.6 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
...or a number of other things that would lead you to believe that you're not so welcome... | X | 4 | 3.4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
...to leave a marriage with domestic violence. if you don't feel like you can come back home, then you won't... | N | 4.6 | 3.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
...be able to leave, you have to have somewhere to go to leave. and i believe it's about... | N | 4.2 | 3.8 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
...but something about one out of five women after divorce live in poverty. so, clearly in america, that's a real issue, | D | 4.2 | 3.2 | 5.6 | 1080 | Female |
...but the money that the men end up paying after divorce sometimes... | N | 3.4 | 3.4 | 3.5 | 1080 | Female |
...something like that. i forget the name of it, but... | X | 4.8 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
...women are getting a few dollars, less than a hundred dollars a month for child support. because if you're not dealing with a wealthy man, chances are, you're not going to get a lot of money from... | X | 4.8 | 2.6 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
... back, it's going to be very difficult to leave an abusive marriage. | U | 5 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
...their husband is abusive, or even if they just are having a lot of issues or whatever it is... | X | 4.8 | 3.8 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
...don't completely remember, but if you're experiencing domestic violence... | N | 3.4 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
...do it from the beginning, if you're not sure if you're going to leave or not, or you want to work on a marriage, is to take your children out of that household and to... | O | 4.4 | 2.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
...an uncle and aunt, whoever that can take care of them for a period of time, while you attempt to work on your marriage. so, if there was domestic violence... | D | 3.8 | 2.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
... put your children elsewhere and try to work on the marriage. but... | N | 5 | 5.2 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
...that also involves community... | N | 4 | 4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
...involvement. if a woman doesn't feel like there's somewhere safe, that she can keep her children, or people who can help her with her children, if she needs to... | A | 4.4 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
the last thing i'll say is that, of course, in our communities, in general, as muslims, we really... | D | 4.9 | 4.4 | 4.7 | 1080 | Female |
...need to evolve our thinking. the funny thing is that... | N | 5.111111 | 4.555556 | 4.888889 | 1080 | Female |
...anti-woman or misogynistic it isn't. but it has to do with what we highlight in the religion, and what we don't highlight. so everyone knows the verse about... | C | 6 | 4 | 5.6 | 1080 | Female |
...quote, unquote, hitting your wife, if that's really what is meant... | X | 5.2 | 3.4 | 5.6 | 1080 | Female |
but let me also say that... | X | 4.6 | 4.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
...it is very detailed in the fiqh when that would even be a possibility. | X | 4.2 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
again, it's not about, the food tastes like... | X | 4.6 | 2.8 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
...there isn't any beating your wife up in islam like there... | X | 4.8 | 3.4 | 5.6 | 1080 | Female |
...bruise, bleeding. so if anything, as i gave that example that my shuyukh gave, it should really, instead of... | H | 4 | 4.2 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
...beat lightly, which doesn't even logically make any sense. | A | 4.8 | 3.4 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
it should really say physical force or something like that, because that's a more nuance. and then would lead someone who reads that first to go and read the fiqh. | S | 3 | 3.2 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
beating is domestic violence. but if it were to say physical force... | X | 5 | 4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
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