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obviously a part of it could be the breakdown in the family that happened in the seventies. so there weren't a lot of men even there to teach their sons- | C | 4 | 3.6 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
or even there to be an example of a man take- | N | 3.4 | 4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
i'm not immune to this at all. then we have this idea that basically- | X | 3.4 | 3.2 | 3 | 1080 | Female |
the marriage will go smoothly. and once you're not, then well break up because that's what marriage is all about- | S | 3.2 | 3.2 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
and so we don't put the time and attention and the strength into- | X | 5.333333 | 4.333333 | 5.111111 | 1080 | Female |
or teach people, how to have strength into keeping- | N | 2.6 | 3.8 | 2.8 | 1080 | Female |
keeping the marriage together- | N | 3.6 | 4.4 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
but also what i'll talk about in the next episode is- | N | 3.8 | 4.8 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
prerequisite is love. i think that is precisely what ruins a lot of our marriages because you get married- | S | 3.5 | 3.166667 | 3.833333 | 1080 | Female |
and you realize, all love is- | S | 4.8 | 3.6 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
just a basic skillset into our marriages. we would be a lot better prepared. like for example, i think that a lot- | X | 4.4 | 4.4 | 5.4 | 1080 | Female |
don't realize that men still really value cooking and cleaning. | X | 2.6 | 3.2 | 3.6 | 880 | Female |
like we think that, you know, this is the 21st century | N | 2.4 | 3.4 | 2.8 | 880 | Female |
we can all share the cooking cleaning. and the reality is that a lot of men still value that. a lot of men- | H | 3.8 | 4.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
expect to come home to a home-cooked meal. now, to me if you are work- | N | 4.4 | 4.6 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
be yours, kind of naturally, if you're home- | H | 3.8 | 4.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
cooking and cleaning and taking care of the children. but if you are working, then all the other responsibilities should really be- | S | 2 | 3 | 3.2 | 880 | Female |
but any way, i think that to me a lot of women don't learn- | S | 4.4 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
something that a lot of men don't realize is that a lot of women still want a provider. and that means even if she does work. so women- | S | 5.2 | 4 | 5.4 | 1080 | Female |
tend to marry, tend to want to marry men who make more than them- | C | 3 | 3 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
i may not be able to link it, but- | X | 3.272727 | 3.909091 | 3.454545 | 1080 | Female |
so this idea of men being provider- | H | 4.4 | 4.2 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
and the man's idea of a woman being- | N | 3.2 | 3.4 | 3 | 1080 | Female |
these are just a couple practical ideas- | N | 3 | 4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
that i had about how we can teach our daughters to be resilient and resourceful instead of afraid and in fear of divorce. so one- | O | 3.4 | 4.6 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
spoke about in detail is to actually try and teach our daughters how to have- | H | 3.4 | 5.6 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
good marriages and, i don't know, it would be wonderful- | N | 4.2 | 5 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
the nation of islam had courses like this. and as i've said before- | X | 3.8 | 3.6 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
it's unfortunate that a lot of muslims, black muslims in particular- | S | 3.6 | 4.2 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
threw out the baby with the bath water, because there was so much- | F | 3.2 | 4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
what have we done for our community. i mean- | S | 3.8 | 3.6 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
you know, i wasn't alive when the noa was strong, i know- | X | 3.8 | 3.8 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
i know that if you look back 50 years from now- | N | 2.8 | 4 | 3 | 1080 | Female |
what have we done for our community? even- | D | 3.8 | 3.2 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
what's happening. i'm just sort of putting the idea out there and others have as well. and i know that some- | N | 3.8 | 4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
communities, i'm sure, to have- | N | 2 | 3.8 | 2.8 | 1080 | Female |
more global to create some kind of model, some kind of prophetic model, whatever- | N | 3.2 | 4.2 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
you want to call it, that we'll teach- | N | 1.8 | 3.2 | 2.8 | 1080 | Female |
to be married at the most basic level. and what i mean by that is that teaching- | N | 3.6 | 4.2 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
take honor and pride in providing for their family, etcetera- | H | 4.4 | 4.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
course will teach how to more practical, not more practical, teaching practical skills | N | 3.875 | 4.5 | 4.125 | 1080 | Female |
like how to financially run a household. so maybe how to budget, how to deal with emotional issues, etcetera- | N | 3.2 | 3.8 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
just things that would prepare people to- | X | 3.4 | 4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
because at this point we just don't. as people from my generation, probably the- | N | 4 | 2.8 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
we'll be married for 50, 60, 70 years until death do them part. whereas- | N | 4.4 | 4.8 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
for people in my generation and as i spoke about in the blog post- | U | 3.6 | 4 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
so i think the more divorce that we see around, the more that it becomes an option, the more that it becomes easier to not work things- | X | 4.4 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
... obtain any skill set, you read a few books, if you're fortunate- | X | 3 | 4.2 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
... most of which are not really preparing for anything, but it's just to have some common knowledge in society- | N | 3.4 | 3.6 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
... but how is it that we spend that much time to prepare for a- | O | 4.8 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
... job? even if you want to just look at the four years we spend in undergraduate,- | N | 3.6 | 4.6 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
... you could go to a higher level. even if you want to look- | X | 3.2 | 3.8 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
... [inaudible 00:00:38] that, that was a valuable part of life, and somehow try to train them to- | S | 2.6 | 3.4 | 2.4 | 1080 | Female |
... our daughters and sons, but we're just talking about daughters in particular. | N | 2.8 | 3.4 | 3.2 | 1080 | Female |
if we're fearing divorce, why not focus on trying to be married as best as possible, and before that- | S | 2 | 4 | 2.6 | 1080 | Female |
... focusing on who to marry. | N | 3.8 | 4.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
is that we should teach our daughters to be- | N | 2.4 | 3.6 | 3.4 | 880 | Female |
and this ties into what i was saying before about teaching- | N | 3.8 | 4.6 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
... our daughters how to be- | N | 2.8 | 4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
... wives as an actual skill- | X | 3.8 | 4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
for example, i think a lot of the times we think that modernity has saved us from a lot of things that house- | S | 3.2 | 4 | 3.2 | 1080 | Female |
... wives would have done in the past, or that the role of a housewife is not as valuable. but i think in some- | X | 4.8 | 4.4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
... ways it's actually more valuable than ever, because of the fact that we've realized- | O | 2.6 | 4.4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
... that modernity hasn't improved our lives in a lot of- | S | 4 | 3.4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
... ways. it may have made things faster and cheaper- | N | 3.5 | 4 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
... but it hasn't made it- | X | 2.4 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
fast food or fast clothes, and many other things. the- | X | 3.6 | 4.6 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
... quality is not high-end. workers are getting paid poor wages. the food is making- | H | 3.8 | 4.4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
so that if you are a woman who learns the skillset of- | N | 2.8 | 3.4 | 3.6 | 880 | Female |
... making nutritious, healthy- | N | 2.6 | 4.6 | 2.4 | 880 | Female |
... home-cooked meals, then that is a wonderful skill set to offer. | H | 4.2 | 5.2 | 5.4 | 1080 | Female |
and knowledge to offer within a marriage and not... money is not the only- | N | 2.2 | 3.8 | 3.2 | 880 | Female |
... is making the money. does it make him- | X | 3 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
... she can also add value with her warmth, her- | U | 4.2 | 5 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
... spirit, her cooking, her organizing, her child-rearing in taking care of the kids. | N | 3.333333 | 4 | 3.666667 | 1080 | Female |
and she shouldn't see herself, and we shouldn't see women as they are dependent, and the man as independent, because he has a job. | N | 3.8 | 3.6 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
as it's called teaching our daughters to be resilient, resourceful, and unafraid. | N | 2.2 | 3.6 | 2.2 | 880 | Female |
i hope you'll comment on the post and tell me what you think. | N | 2.2 | 3.2 | 3.6 | 880 | Female |
and thank you for listening. take care. | N | 2.4 | 3.6 | 2.6 | 1080 | Female |
hello, and welcome to in the days of [nor 00:02:41], with me, nor, where we talk about islamic-related topics and social issues. | N | 3.6 | 4.8 | 4 | 880 | Female |
today we're going to be discussing the topic of domestic violence. | X | 4.2 | 4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
he has a blog called abu amina- | X | 3.6 | 3.2 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
[inaudible 00:03:00] one because it's more common that men physically abuse women, as well as it being more dangerous, and- | C | 3.4 | 2.4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
... easy for a woman too, but it's just a bit more straightforward. so, if a woman was to hit her husband, it'd be very easy for him to leave that relationship- | S | 4 | 2.6 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
... habiba bint sahl reported, she was the wife of thabit ibn qays,- | X | 4.4 | 4.6 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
... i think it's pronounced. and in the morning- | N | 3.6 | 3.6 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
... she said, "i am habiba bint sahl"- | N | 5 | 4.2 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
... the prophet, excuse me, habiba bint sahl... the prophet said- | N | 3.4 | 4.4 | 3.2 | 1080 | Female |
... "this is habiba", and she has mentioned whatever alliance will fail to mention. | N | 3.6 | 4.2 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
it's said that thabit has struck her. so let me read the other narration that makes it more clear that that is the case. | N | 4.4 | 4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
[inaudible 00:03:58] i hope i can find it quickly. okay. | N | 3.8 | 4.4 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
... was the wife of thabit ibn qays and it was mentioned to the messenger of allah [inaudible 00:04:07] that they were married and she was his neighbor. | N | 4.2 | 4.6 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
thabit [inaudible 00:04:13] and said "thabit and i can no longer be married." | X | 3.8 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
thabit take what she owes you and let her go. | S | 3.2 | 2.8 | 2.6 | 1080 | Female |
so in this hadith we see- | N | 3.6 | 4.4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
... very clearly that a woman experienced domestic violence and we don't know the extent of it, right? | C | 4 | 4 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
it seems, just from the hadith that it was one blow, whatever it was, a punch or- | X | 4.2 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
... hit, he could divorce. it may not be the case, that may not be the case- | S | 3.666667 | 3 | 3.833333 | 1080 | Female |
... for what it appears in the hadith, but what is clear is that there was some- | S | 4.2 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
... harm of some kind, some kind of physical harm- | U | 4.8 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
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