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but i am more than happy to take some time for myself to make some money. if that is honestly a choice, | H | 4.2 | 4.4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
like it's completely fine, if that's your choice. now to ask people who are... | S | 4.2 | 2.4 | 4 | 1558 | Female |
but you need people who. | N | 4.8 | 4.6 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
feel this guilt and they want it to be turned off by people who are supporting and valuing women's work, | X | 4.6 | 3.8 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
saying, "oh, the choice of you working, that's completely equal to women who stay at home." it's not equal. | A | 4.4 | 2.4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:01:08] no, it means that you two are making | N | 4.666667 | 2.833333 | 4.833333 | 1080 | Female |
different choices. and so, and part of the... | U | 3.6 | 3.6 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
when we were younger, | N | 3.6 | 4.2 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
so i kind of, i really wanted to... | X | 4.4 | 4.4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
see i guess this is the psychology part of me. | S | 4 | 4 | 3.166667 | 1080 | Female |
i really wanted to get the honest, most basic level answer of why she made that decision, because i feel like a lot of people, | A | 4.2 | 3.2 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
they may or may not have had to work when you dig deep. so anyway, i was trying | N | 4.4 | 4.4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
to do that with my mom | S | 4.6 | 3.8 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
and so she basically told me it wasn't that my dad could not afford to take care of us, | A | 3 | 2.6 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
whatever it was. she didn't want to always have to ask him for money because she didn't want to always have to report to him | X | 4 | 4.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
and have a discussion about why did this cost x and why did this cost y. | N | 5 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
and that really was the heart of it. she wanted to | H | 5 | 4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
have financial independence to some degree. | H | 5 | 4.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
and so that was her choice. and i | X | 4 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
asked her, "okay, so what... did you feel like that was worth the sacrifice of being away from your kids for | X | 3.4 | 2.6 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
however many number of hours a day?" | D | 3.4 | 3.4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
and that doesn't mean that's what i have to think is best for my life, it doesn't mean i have to think that | U | 5 | 2.8 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
she made the choice that she made. | N | 4.6 | 3.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
and i think if you can actually boil it down to that, if you | X | 4.2 | 3.6 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
can say, "if i didn't want to work, | X | 4 | 3.8 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
my husband would be able to support me." | H | 3.8 | 4.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
saying, you know, "my name is so-and-so and i'm a housewife." or when people ask me if i work, | F | 4.6 | 4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
people would judge me. so then you kind of know if there's a social pressure element as well. | H | 5.2 | 4.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
and all of these things are important when we're making decisions as women, but the problem | S | 3.2 | 2.8 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
is we don't actually get to make these decisions. | A | 4 | 3 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:03:24] make your own decision based on that, but you're kind of late to | X | 4.4 | 4.8 | 5.4 | 1080 | Female |
that you should be on a pursuit to some kind of career. and then someone gives you the idea of being a housewife. that would be... that would sound really foreign. | X | 4.8 | 4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
what are you going to study? what do you want to be? and they're all talking about career. | O | 4.8 | 4.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:03:44] instructor of this podcast very well, so just respond. | X | 4.2 | 3.8 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
but i just think it's really important that | X | 4.4 | 4.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
i continue to talk about the value of traditional women's | N | 5 | 4.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
work. i mean, that is one of the most important things to me right now. the value of | N | 5.2 | 4.8 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
traditional women's work in traditional women's roles. | C | 3.7 | 4.2 | 4.3 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:04:10] i mean, i hate that word, but | A | 3.4 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
is it probably more practical? | O | 4.6 | 4.4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
i mean, i suppose, you know, i... | S | 4.6 | 3.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:04:22] materialistic. i'm trying to learn a lot about minimalism as well. | N | 4.4 | 4.4 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
and so the idea of needing it, | X | 4.6 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
but i do doubt that that's true for the majority of people or for... | X | 4.6 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
you read a couple of minimalists books and then become a real fanatic and decide, you know what, i'm going minimalism. i'm just going to live on my bare necessities. and maybe | X | 5.2 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
a few of the things that i love. | N | 3.6 | 4.8 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
would you really still need two incomes? | X | 5 | 4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
i mean, how much money do we waste? | X | 5.4 | 3.8 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
instead of saying, "okay, this is our budget | A | 4.4 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
and my husband is making $30,000, but we need to make $50,000 to cover all of our expenses | S | 4 | 3 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
a year jobs so that we can make ends meet." | H | 3.6 | 4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
yeah, that's one way of doing it. the [crosstalk 00:05:18] | H | 5 | 5 | 5.4 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:05:19] but not enough, not... there aren't a lot of women who have that skill anymore to say, "how can i | S | 3.8 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
sing skill in our society?" | S | 3.8 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 1080 | Female |
so i think it's a value for us to talk more about that, to discuss more of how you could possibly make it on a one income house. | F | 4.6 | 4.2 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
and so that, that also becomes a part of the conversation with | H | 4.4 | 4.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
discussing the value of women's work and talking about housewifery and homemaking. | N | 5.2 | 4.8 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
and i think there's something to be said about | S | 4.2 | 3.8 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
connect it with something that i think is already apparent, which is that for example, in [crosstalk 00:06:04]. | N | 4.8 | 4.9 | 4.7 | 1080 | Female |
she talks about the way in which, i mean, this should be apparent | N | 3.8 | 4 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
to all of us in life in general was just from | S | 4.4 | 3.6 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:06:12] relationships are extremely important to women, to the point where we will put relationship over principle a lot of the time. | S | 3.2 | 2.6 | 3.2 | 1080 | Female |
quote unquote principal, because if it's like the man's world view | N | 4 | 3.6 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
where he may be going by a particular logic, | N | 4.6 | 4.2 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
and then there's something in the woman's intuition that says, | X | 4 | 3.4 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
"i don't think we should do that." and she could be right. not | N | 5 | 4.4 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
to say that we're always right, but she could very well | X | 4 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
be right. and it's not necessarily based on some logic or some rule | X | 4.2 | 3.4 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
where there is a chemist who's selling this drug and he's selling it very expensive. it's a life-saving drug. someone comes in to buy it | X | 5 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
and they can't afford it. | S | 4.6 | 3.2 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
they always discussed the principle. well, you shouldn't | N | 4.2 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
take anyone's property. well, you shouldn't take advantage of people who don't have less. some kind of | C | 3.4 | 3.6 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
principle. whereas women think, | X | 4.8 | 4.6 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
but he won't actually be able to spend time with his wife, or some | C | 5 | 3 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
other women will say, well, we don't know why the | X | 4.2 | 3.4 | 4 | 1080 | Female |
[crosstalk 00:07:26] family back at home. so women are, | S | 3 | 3.6 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
a unique skill that we have. and it is also, we can almost think about it as | X | 5.2 | 4.4 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
is unseen work. no one can really say if a mother is good or not good, we just | C | 5 | 4.6 | 5.4 | 1080 | Female |
oh, you're saving lives, you're such a great person, you're such a great doctor, | H | 5.083333 | 5.25 | 4.916667 | 1080 | Female |
human being. that's not so great out in the world. | S | 3.8 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
you can assume they maybe didn't have such a great child-rearing by their mother. and people get very sensitive about that. don't blame the mother, it's not her, but it's | X | 4.875 | 3.5 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
about taking responsibility. and again, you take | X | 5 | 4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
responsibility for the good and the bad, | N | 4.4 | 4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
but i think this is a part of it, is that people don't want to blame women, they don't want | X | 4.8 | 3.6 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
overly responsible, and there's no doubt that other factors | X | 4.4 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
will play a role, but we also have to realize that in downplaying the blame of mother and the responsibility of mother... | X | 4.4 | 3.2 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
so if i... if one mother is spending | N | 4.8 | 3.6 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
twenty hours a day, well not twenty hours a day, | X | 4.4 | 4.2 | 3.8 | 1080 | Female |
sixteen hours a day with her children and the other mother is spending eight hours a day with her children, to say that they are equal is to say that... | N | 5.166667 | 5 | 5.166667 | 1080 | Female |
i can't buy it to that. to say that both women have a choice for their own life and to make their life whatever they want it to be. of course they | S | 4.2 | 3.6 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
do. of course they do. and if they want to make the choice to work based on whatever their circumstance. for my mother, | U | 5.2 | 4 | 5.2 | 1080 | Female |
she wanted some economic independence, for another woman she may | X | 5 | 3.8 | 5.6 | 1080 | Female |
love her career, for another woman | X | 3.8 | 3.4 | 3.6 | 1080 | Female |
she just doesn't want to be with kids all day, every day. it's okay. | N | 4.4 | 3.6 | 5 | 1080 | Female |
it's important of course, to not offend people, | X | 3.6 | 3.4 | 3.4 | 1080 | Female |
but it's also important to speak the truth clearly, and to not water down your message. and so, [crosstalk 00:09:44] | X | 4 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 1080 | Female |
and not so that they become housewives, that's their choice. | N | 4.666667 | 3.833333 | 5.333333 | 1080 | Female |
and i would not recommend anyone to be a housewife because that is a personal choice only. | X | 5 | 3.2 | 4.2 | 1080 | Female |
you know your life, and if that would work for you. | S | 2.9 | 3.6 | 3.5 | 1080 | Female |
...value women's work as much as they value a title and a career. | N | 4.6 | 4.4 | 4.8 | 1080 | Female |
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