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once [inaudible 00:03:04] messages, i see, as you know- | H | 4 | 5 | 3.8 | 1653 | Female |
depending, it gets to the point where i'll just dm you and be like [inaudible 00:03:10] message. | X | 4.4 | 3.6 | 3.8 | 1656 | Male |
like the bff in some weird attempt to make them jealous- | O | 3.8 | 2.4 | 4.6 | 1656 | Male |
i don't know, do guys think ... i don't really care about that stuff so much. | U | 5.4 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 1654 | Male |
put them on a pedestal, there is a lot of red flags that you ignore that- | S | 3.4 | 2.6 | 3.6 | 1654 | Male |
well, there are people who look like the type of men that we want to be with. i was- | H | 4 | 3.4 | 5 | 1653 | Female |
... watching a lot of black movies over the weekend and there was so many different variations of the type of guys that- | H | 4.8 | 4.6 | 4.6 | 1656 | Male |
actually, is it what they're doing, is it their looks? and that's what i mean when i say that i feel like we doing ourselves a dis-service because it's- | S | 4.8 | 3 | 4.2 | 1653 | Female |
would even bring anything to the table. or do we consider ourselves pieces of shit, to be honest? | X | 3.8 | 2.4 | 4.8 | Unknown | Unknown |
because if we don't, then are you really punching- | O | 4.6 | 3.2 | 4.8 | 1654 | Male |
... something tangible to bring into a relationship. i don't know if- | S | 4 | 3 | 4.2 | 1656 | Male |
maybe that's also inspiring you as much as you're attracted to them, to actually do something with yourself and your life. so- | H | 4 | 5 | 4.6 | 1656 | Male |
so, going down to the main section of today's episode. | H | 3.4 | 4.8 | 3.6 | 1654 | Male |
so, this is the version of ravi's dilemma. | H | 3.6 | 5.2 | 4 | 1656 | Male |
as i mentioned, she has a boyfriend the whole time we've been speaking. | C | 3.6 | 2.6 | 3.8 | 1656 | Male |
which is weird, because it's almost widely known that she has that she don't- | O | 4.2 | 4.4 | 4.4 | 1654 | Male |
but she don't talk about it to me. today, i'm still chatting with- | N | 3.8 | 4.6 | 4 | 1656 | Male |
she is a really nice person. she is really funny and we get along- | H | 3.8 | 5.6 | 4.2 | 1654 | Male |
... really, really well. and i think it's one of those things where, because- | X | 3.2 | 3.8 | 3.4 | 1653 | Female |
so, we've been talking and we kind of- | S | 3.4 | 3.4 | 3.6 | 1653 | Female |
i would say go out again. | N | 3.6 | 4.2 | 3.6 | 1655 | Male |
what has been your issue so far? | O | 3.8 | 3.6 | 3.4 | 1655 | Male |
i've had this as well with a few people that i've liked and got along with and all that and i've asked people- | X | 2.8 | 4 | 3.4 | 1653 | Female |
... do it but, you're not trying to break up with your boyfriend or your girlfriend?yeah. | S | 3.4 | 2.6 | 4.2 | 1655 | Male |
yeah, we need to find out if this boyfriend is real. | S | 3.2 | 3 | 3 | 1653 | Female |
from that my natural expectation of them- | S | 2.8 | 2.8 | 2.8 | 1655 | Male |
... see your feeling then sort of like, almost move on a little bit because you're like, okay- | N | 3.6 | 3.4 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
you can stay friends with them i guess. | S | 2.4 | 3.2 | 2.4 | 1653 | Female |
which might be the case if you do take the advice- | S | 2.6 | 3.6 | 3 | 1653 | Female |
... out of like, or maybe she is not happy and she just wants to sort of see what is going on kind of thing. | S | 3.4 | 2.8 | 3.4 | 1655 | Male |
and it's about sort of- | S | 2.2 | 3.4 | 3 | 1653 | Female |
... happens. so, we're going to go into the final part of the pod. | H | 4 | 4.6 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
and this part of the pod or this part of the episode, not of the pod, essentially just is handing it over to the both of you as my guests- | H | 4.4 | 4.4 | 3.6 | 1655 | Male |
at least you don't have money problems, because you have- | S | 4.4 | 3.2 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
who your partner or potential partners and just try- | N | 3.6 | 3.2 | 3.8 | 1653 | Female |
e. so, it's ravi.parma_, so r-a-v-i.p-a-r-m-a. | N | 3 | 4 | 4.2 | 1653 | Female |
definitely follow those. i will link them on the platforms as- | N | 3.6 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1653 | Female |
... at gmail.com or you can use the curios cat link which is up on all the platforms as well. as always, thank you very much for joining- | H | 3.4 | 4.8 | 3.6 | 1655 | Male |
you know that already. [inaudible 00:06:41] the bams if you got it and i am here with two amazing, wonderful, inspirational- | H | 4.4 | 5 | 4.6 | 1655 | Male |
... [inaudible 00:06:49] for beautiful babies of color. | H | 3.2 | 4.6 | 4 | 1655 | Male |
guys, thank you so much for having me. i'm quite excited, i love- | H | 4.2 | 5.8 | 4.2 | 1655 | Male |
... a good podcast. but, my name is tobi, creator or founder- | H | 3.6 | 4.6 | 4.8 | 1653 | Female |
... happy and excited that you've both been able to come onto the podcast today. i know there is going to be- | H | 3.4 | 4.4 | 3 | 1655 | Male |
... a wealth of wisdom that will come about. and yeah, i mean, i think we should- | H | 4.4 | 4.8 | 4 | 1655 | Male |
build your boo to filled you boo. and the way filled you boo is going to work is slightly different. [inaudible 00:07:27] you have- | H | 3.6 | 5.2 | 4.6 | 1653 | Female |
and in those 30 seconds, what i would like you to do, is for every person that is listening, whether you are single- | H | 4.8 | 4.8 | 4.6 | 1653 | Female |
... whether you are just finding yourself. i would like you to- | H | 4.2 | 4.6 | 4.8 | 1655 | Male |
give them three pieces of advice that you feel- | X | 4 | 4.6 | 4.2 | 1653 | Female |
... that you would give to them in 30 seconds. | S | 3.4 | 3.4 | 3.2 | 1653 | Female |
to elaborate, i mean, 30 seconds is short and long at the same time. it's- | X | 4.6 | 4.8 | 4.4 | 1653 | Female |
somewhat clutch because obviously you want to have ... you want to enjoy your time with your partner, but it's important that- | X | 4 | 3.2 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
so, what would you say in terms of- | N | 3.6 | 4.4 | 3.6 | 1655 | Male |
... those two things. what would you say might potentially be- | X | 2.6 | 3.8 | 2.8 | 1655 | Male |
and then, what strength is your connection, what made you- | X | 3 | 4.2 | 4 | 1655 | Male |
thank you, tobi. dev, onto you. | H | 4.2 | 5.6 | 4.6 | 1653 | Female |
yeah, is in a relationship and- | N | 4 | 3.4 | 3.2 | 1655 | Male |
... all about compromise. it's all about give and take. so, if you go [inaudible 00:08:38]- | H | 4 | 4.8 | 4 | 1655 | Male |
yeah. so, i've actually said the second, just being the best version of yourself. because- | H | 4.8 | 5 | 4.2 | 1655 | Male |
... will solve some loneliness or some- | S | 3.8 | 3.2 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
but if you're secure in yourself, if you're confident in yourself- | O | 4.2 | 4.2 | 4.8 | 1653 | Female |
... because you're not whole and you're not believing in yourself. so, it's a- | S | 3 | 3 | 3 | 1653 | Female |
... if you're like, "that went by in a flash." | H | 3.6 | 5.2 | 3.8 | 1653 | Female |
... [inaudible 00:09:15] the marriage is going to be amazing. | O | 4 | 4.4 | 4.2 | 1653 | Female |
i've definitely ... the way i see- | S | 2.6 | 3 | 2.8 | 1653 | Female |
... for me, at least, the pace of, this is how you can do it. and it's not easy. | N | 3.6 | 3.8 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
and today we'll be talking about a variety of things. | H | 4.6 | 5 | 4.8 | 1653 | Female |
... [inaudible 00:09:32] very enjoyable. | S | 3.2 | 3 | 3 | 1653 | Female |
i mean, the great thing, you mentioned maybe [inaudible 00:09:38]. the great thing is that, that journey for me anyway was done alongside and in the presence of some amazing phenomenal women who- | H | 4.6 | 5.2 | 4.8 | 1655 | Male |
... that was going on. but ultimately, to really love on me and the relationship as it was developing- | X | 3.6 | 4.2 | 3.2 | 1655 | Male |
so, it's been a really lovely journey. my husband, it... | N | 4 | 5 | 4.6 | 1655 | Male |
getting married was quite fun. it's sort of the next... | X | 4.2 | 4.2 | 4.6 | 1655 | Male |
... a young married couple to having kids is probably when i think, toby, you can probably relate as well, where it sort of takes it up a notch, and introduces a whole... | U | 3.4 | 2.8 | 4 | 1655 | Male |
financial stretching. trying to juggle and balance it, or trying to figure out who you are in the midst of all of this chaos, because... | X | 4.4 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 1653 | Female |
... trying to make that change so... | N | 3.4 | 4.2 | 3.4 | 1653 | Female |
and again, having fantastic women like [inaudible 00:00:47]... | H | 3.4 | 5 | 3 | 1655 | Male |
just being able to share experiences and feeling... | H | 3.6 | 5 | 4.2 | 1655 | Male |
... vulnerable and feeling up, or feeling down, or tearing your hair out because your kids... | S | 3.4 | 2.6 | 3.4 | 1655 | Male |
in terms of community... | N | 2.6 | 3.6 | 3 | 1655 | Male |
experience what you've been [inaudible 00:01:06]... | N | 3.2 | 4 | 3.6 | 1655 | Male |
that was great. and then yeah, throw in to the mix one child. and is... | H | 3.2 | 4.6 | 3.8 | 1655 | Male |
... for the men to also help in terms of support for us... | N | 3.8 | 3.6 | 4 | 1655 | Male |
and the baby is [inaudible 00:01:22]. that's definitely a challenge, i think. add another... | H | 4.2 | 4.2 | 3.4 | 1655 | Male |
as i said, coming back to your values and your connection, and your... | S | 3.6 | 3.2 | 3.8 | 1655 | Male |
... think, like you said it, sometimes it... | X | 3 | 3 | 3 | 1653 | Female |
it's just about managing that. so yeah. no, i think it's really... | N | 3.6 | 3.8 | 3.6 | 1655 | Male |
... or for your experience. but going back to the community part. and what i was going to say before was that... | X | 3.6 | 3.6 | 4 | 1655 | Male |
... to really help elevate me to where i want to be. because you visualize it, you see it... | X | 4 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 1655 | Male |
... get a sense by how much people... sorry. let me start again. | N | 3.2 | 3.8 | 3.2 | 1653 | Female |
... 100% the same. nobody's ever heard someone else's story coming from... | S | 3.8 | 4.2 | 3.8 | 1653 | Female |
we're quite fortunate, i think. i think there's something to be said about... | H | 3.8 | 4.2 | 4.2 | 1653 | Female |
remember when i started lwb. the reason i started was i was like, "okay, i've just moved back to london. i really don't know much..." | N | 4.2 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 1655 | Male |
must be a really weird thing. it's not really about me. it's more... | N | 4.8 | 3.8 | 3.8 | 1655 | Male |
[inaudible 00:02:23] things together... | X | 3.2 | 3.4 | 4.2 | 1653 | Female |
we were in this really unique space in our lives where everyone was young and... | H | 4.8 | 5 | 4.6 | 1653 | Female |
... very similar principles and morals. and it started off, i think, five of us or something, but like... | X | 4 | 3.8 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
... attracting like meant that... | N | 3.8 | 3.6 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
... really good, or, this is well before... | X | 4.2 | 3.6 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
... or social media, like instagram and stuff like that came about. i think we have facebook... | S | 3.8 | 2.8 | 4 | 1653 | Female |
"oh, could i come?" and that person themselves wanting to protect that... | N | 4.4 | 3 | 4.2 | 1655 | Male |
... environment, that friendship, that sisterhood that we were building would be like... | N | 4.2 | 4.2 | 3.8 | 1655 | Male |
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