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... something that i'm more passionate about. i need something that i- | X | 3.6 | 2.8 | 3.4 | 227 | Male |
... the more sturdy, more fundamental. all of a sudden- | X | 4 | 3 | 4 | 227 | Male |
... you probably will end up attracting the attention of the opposite sex. and you probably are much more- | U | 4 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
... old. twenties, thirties, who still haven't had that first realization. oh- | U | 3.6 | 3 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
... geez. this isn't really going to end well. | S | 3.6 | 2.8 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
listen, then your compromise doesn't really mean- | N | 4.2 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 228 | Male |
... it's this. in order to successfully pursue something- | N | 3.6 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 228 | Male |
... that way of putting it. and that's something that i think we really get- | H | 4.4 | 4.6 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
... you, and whether they say it explicitly or implicitly, oh- | N | 4.2 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
... this is the distinction. so what you just said, and i know you didn't mean it this way, but it's just totally conventional- | X | 3.6 | 3.6 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
... way to make myself not appear desperate. i've got to sort of- | O | 3.8 | 2.8 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
... mask my desperation and that will never work. that will make it even worse. what tk- | O | 4.2 | 2.2 | 5 | 227 | Male |
... be desperate. you have to attain the mental, the- | X | 3.8 | 2.8 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
desperate, and that's unattractive. so let me study the art of not appearing desperate, let me- | N | 3.4 | 3.6 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
imaging. i think the most unhealthy thing any person can engage in, | D | 4.6 | 2.8 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
is a widening of the gap between who they are, and who they think they are, or who they attempt to project that they are. | S | 3.6 | 3.4 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
if you are desperate, it's almost better to just own that desperation. and then say, "i've got to learn- | X | 4.4 | 2.6 | 5.4 | 227 | Male |
overcome this desperation." it's like if you're an alcoholic, doing things to make sure nobody thinks you're an alcoholic is worse than just being open about it. | X | 4.6 | 2.6 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
women don't like me because of this fundamental misalignment of where i get my self worth. therefore, give me- | X | 4 | 2.6 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
the wife of his character is arrested. and this happens at the beginning of the movie, and she's like accused of this crime- | N | 4.4 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 228 | Male |
have a horrible day. we both just laugh and say- | H | 4 | 4.6 | 3.8 | 228 | Male |
you need it too bad, you got to let something go. and we're almost always right. even though it's funny, anytime we really need a person- | H | 5.4 | 5.6 | 4.8 | 228 | Male |
immediately just like, "ugh". | H | 5 | 4.8 | 4 | 227 | Male |
i feel like a prisoner, like, "no, i don't... maybe i will." | X | 5.8 | 3.2 | 3.6 | 227 | Male |
... it's like i can feel almost the oppressive shackles of your needing- | H | 4.8 | 6 | 4.2 | Unknown | Unknown |
... stop it. stop caring what- | A | 4 | 2.6 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
let it go. find something deeper. be someone who truly- | X | 4.6 | 4 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
is hoping one landed somewhere that they didn't absolutely hate. | O | 3.2 | 4 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
apprenticeship during the program. see, you get paid to apprentice while you're in the program with these businesses. | X | 4.2 | 4.6 | 5 | 227 | Male |
...met cost of zero experience. | A | 5.2 | 2.8 | 5 | Unknown | Unknown |
now i say this, but i know that it's useless to say that, because you just have to go through it. | N | 4 | 3 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
no. so, me personally, so i had this- | H | 4.2 | 4.2 | 4 | 227 | Male |
playing the fool and i'm pissed- | X | 3.2 | 3 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
always knew deep down that she was not as interested in me as i was in her. it just- | S | 4 | 3.4 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
i literally, tk i mean, i became a shell of myself- | U | 5.8 | 3.6 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
things that i love that i never knew that i- | O | 4.4 | 5.2 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
but every single one of them was negotiable. | O | 4.4 | 3 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
every one of them. this girl was my focus, and i would do anything for her. and if she was like- | N | 4 | 3.6 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
i mean, if we wanted be together, i would've done it. if i would've had to stop playing guitar to keep her attention, or- | N | 4.4 | 3.4 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
keep the relationship, i would've done it. if i needed to stop playing basketball, i would've done it. if i needed to quit- | X | 6 | 3 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
a job. if i needed to say no to an opportunity to do something amazing, because i had to stay in kalamazoo michigan, | N | 4 | 3 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
everything was negotiable if it meant keeping her, and in her- | N | 4 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
totally who i was. now, i didn't realize, i thought this was a noble thing. | U | 5.6 | 3 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
young adolescent boy. and i- | X | 4 | 3.8 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
thought this made me noble. and i'm the kind of guy most girls would- | O | 4 | 3.8 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
die for. i do all the sweet stuff they do in those movies, and buy roses, and all... and that became of my identity. | U | 5 | 4 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
this was great. and- | U | 4.4 | 5.2 | 4 | 227 | Male |
once i finally... it got so bad that i just had to admit to myself, she would go and hang out with other people instead of with- | O | 5 | 2.4 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
and absolutely nothing wrong, i don't think, with what she was doing. it all- | X | 4.8 | 3.4 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
objectively, anyone else would be jealous of having a guy like this- | U | 4.2 | 3.2 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
i've been here with my hotdog the whole time. | X | 3.8 | 4.4 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
she didn't say it wasn't true, she knew it too. and even at- | H | 5.2 | 4.4 | 5 | 227 | Male |
really great to just get out of my normal habits, and routine, and friend circle, and all that stuff. | N | 4 | 4 | 4 | 227 | Male |
i finally realized that all this time, i had a really low view of myself. and i never consciously would've said that, because i've always kind of had that- | U | 5.4 | 3.8 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
i'm out there on this mission trip with all these people, and they're like, "oh wow, you- | X | 4.2 | 4.2 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
it's like, i had thought really lowly of myself, because no matter what i did, no matter how good it was- | U | 5 | 2.6 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
and so that subtly influenced me, and i just sort opened up and realized, and came alive. and when i had that- | X | 3.8 | 4.4 | 4 | 227 | Male |
all these mission trips i wanted to go, i wanted to die in some crazy- | A | 5.4 | 2.2 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
all of a sudden, life was just full of possibility. and i didn't care. i would go- | N | 5 | 3.4 | 5.4 | 227 | Male |
the world to me. and when i did that- | U | 4.4 | 4.2 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
i meet heather, not long after that, with a whole group of friends. and we all start- | N | 3.6 | 3 | 3.8 | 227 | Male |
had no... i was not intellectual. i did not read a lot of books or whatever- | O | 4.4 | 3.6 | 5 | 227 | Male |
but i was so accustomed to just not needing- | U | 5 | 3.6 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
i don't pursue heather and try to make her like me and be impressed with me. | X | 4.4 | 2.4 | 5 | 227 | Male |
i just go after who i am, and be who i am. and because of it- | H | 5.4 | 5.4 | 5 | 227 | Male |
so anyway, that's my own personal story. and having gone through that now, when i see young guys who have not yet had that sort of moment... | X | 5.8 | 4.2 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
this has never happened for one of our podcasts before- | N | 4 | 4.2 | 4.8 | 228 | Male |
genuinely feeling what i'm doing. this is the right thing for me to do, based on how i feel about her, | X | 3.2 | 4 | 4 | 228 | Male |
even if i have no reason to think that it's going to work, it tends- | N | 4.2 | 3.4 | 3.8 | 228 | Male |
to work. and it's one of those things that goes back to this idea of coming at whatever it is you come at, from this feeling of- | X | 3.8 | 3.6 | 4.2 | 228 | Male |
...fear your disapproval. i fear your unhappiness. i fear- | S | 4.8 | 3 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
i'm going to try to do a tap dance routine or- | N | 3.8 | 3.8 | 4.2 | 228 | Male |
whatever it is i do, in order to avoid this thing that i'm afraid of- | X | 4.6 | 2.8 | 4.8 | 228 | Male |
hey, i'm genuinely interested in you. | H | 4.6 | 5 | 4.6 | 228 | Male |
i'm genuinely excited about doing this together, and you know what? | H | 4.6 | 5 | 4.2 | 228 | Male |
...flexibility in order to not be shattered in- | X | 3.8 | 3.8 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
... god, i can't do this trip with you tk because i've got, i don't have the money because i've got to get this 15th anniversary diamond ring because i promised heather on our fifth anniversary- | S | 4.6 | 3 | 3.8 | 227 | Male |
and now i have lost the ability, the flexibility- | S | 4.2 | 2.6 | 4 | 227 | Male |
i don't know if in 10 years from now you'll really want, more than anything else, to spend $20,000 on a diamond ring. | N | 4.4 | 3.2 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
i relate to this in the terms of, it's just making friends. and i believe in a lot of ways, that your love life is an- | X | 2.8 | 4.4 | 4.8 | 228 | Male |
going to wait. i'm going to do what i want to do. if i want to go to the bookstore, or i want to go out to eat- | A | 3.8 | 3.2 | 4 | 228 | Male |
it's ridiculous. and i truly do believe that- | X | 5 | 3.2 | 5 | Unknown | Unknown |
like, "oh my gosh, we're philosophy majors. can we talk?" | X | 3.6 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
that you truly believe in, people can sense that. people can feel that, and people want to be around- | U | 4.4 | 4.4 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
that. and it gives you opportunity to connect with people in interesting ways. and that doesn't mean that everyone you meet will become your best friend, or will- | N | 5.4 | 4.8 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
trying to please a girl, and there's nothing wrong with desire. that's a legit- | X | 3.6 | 4 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
to respect yourself, and you have to resist the temptation to lie to yourself. | S | 3.6 | 3 | 4.4 | 227 | Male |
sticking at this thing from a guy's perspective. you and i both know this is- | X | 3.6 | 3.2 | 4.2 | 227 | Male |
to be feared. and when you can get to this point where say, "hey- | N | 3.8 | 3.8 | 4 | 227 | Male |
and, "what's something i'm so passionate about, that i feel good when i create value for people,"- | X | 3.6 | 5 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
be pursued, and i won't compromise that for anybody. and that- | S | 3.4 | 2.6 | 4 | 227 | Male |
that blinds you to the self knowledge of what you actually- | N | 2.6 | 3.6 | 3.8 | 227 | Male |
you're unable to see what it is that you really need, because money is only a means. just like the attention of a girl is only a means- | O | 4.6 | 2.4 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
ends to the self knowledge of what really makes you come alive. if you keep- | N | 3.6 | 4.2 | 4 | 227 | Male |
all personnel problems essentially boil down to- | X | 3.2 | 3.6 | 3.8 | 227 | Male |
because they saw you were an interesting person. | N | 3.8 | 3.4 | 4.6 | 227 | Male |
be interested. if you're interested in the world, in whatever it is that you have, that you- | H | 4.4 | 4.6 | 5.4 | 227 | Male |
an interesting person you're interested in. that's that's fascinating, right? | X | 4.2 | 4.6 | 4.8 | 227 | Male |
who looks smart. you sound confident, you sound cool. and like- | N | 3 | 4.8 | 4.8 | 228 | Male |
i think it's so important to get out of that paradigm of finding out what women want. i mean, | C | 4 | 3.2 | 4.8 | 228 | Male |
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