Selective Forgetting: A Graph-Based Memory Framework for Long-Term LLM Agents

Knowledge graphs have been proposed as a structured alternative to flat retrieval-augmented generation for long-term agent memory, on the assumption that representing conversations as entities and relations improves recall. We evaluate that assumption directly. Our framework extracts each conversational turn into typed nodes and attributed edges, answers questions from a two-hop subgraph, and periodically prunes nodes that score low on a weighted combination of recency, access frequency, degree centrality, and age. On LongMemEval, the graph does not outperform a flat vector baseline at a matched candidate-generation budget of five retrieval roots: token F1 is 0.417 against 0.468, and a paired bootstrap over 500 questions gives Δ= -0.050 (95\% CI [-0.085, -0.016]). The gap is widest on questions that require recalling a specific prior assistant turn, where judged correctness falls from 0.911 to 0.607, suggesting that decomposing a turn into entities discards the surface form these questions depend on. The forgetting module is more successful. Applied once to a persistent 27{,}021-node graph, it removes 9.8\% of nodes and 9.5\% of stored bytes; token F1 is unchanged (+0.001, 95\% CI [-0.015, +0.016]) and judged correctness falls by 1.6 points, with the 95\% interval bounding any loss at 3.8 points ([-0.038, +0.006]). Because our extractor is a single small model evaluated on one benchmark, these results characterise this extraction-based pipeline rather than graph-structured memory in general. Code: https://github.com/skhanzad/Selective-Amnesia